Getting Dates with Women
You
should always approach her in a calm, composed manner. Do not stutter
and neither you should speak so softly that she has trouble understanding
you. Do not "come on" to her like a dog in heat, simply
approach her with a lot of warmth and friendliness.
When
talking to her, try to make your conversation last for at least
3- 5 minutes. Remember, you must try to conclude your conversation
with either getting her phone number or with a date. Always keep
this goal in mind.
Getting
Their Phone Number
What's
the best way to get a woman's phone number? Here's the best way:
"I'd like to take you out sometime, can I have your phone number?"
One great trick I learnt is to ask for her e-mail address/ICQ no.
as well. This way, you imply that your hip 'because your connected
to the net. Be sure to always carry a pen and paper with you at
all times, just for this purpose.
Don't
try to pretend you have a photographic memory. This brain of ours
has a habit of crashing at the most importune moments. (Sounds a
whole lot like win95, doesn't it?)
The
Waiting Game
After
she gives you her phone number, how long do you wait before you
call her? If she seemed interested in you, wait 5 days (this is
to keep her guessing and thinking about you). If she did not seem
too interested in you, wait 2 days. Unless of course she specifically
asked you to call her that same evening. That definitely means she's
interested. Although some may dispute this technique, the concept
behind it is pretty simple actually. You want to make her think
about you. You also don't want to seem overly desperate to court
her. This implies that you are suave, cool, and comfortable with
women.
Should
you decide to ask her out, be specific about the date.
Example:
"Let's have dinner at Shezan Court Saturday night at 8 p.m.
and
afterwards we can go dancing at The Club. Is that OK with you?"
Caution
Obviously,
this wait-and-see technique has it's drawbacks. This is especially
true if you know that someone else is trying to ask her out. In
that situation, calling her quickly would definitely be the best
option. Decide for yourself which method you prefer and are more
comfortable with.
Dating
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