Conversing For Maximum Attraction
- Girls version
It's
a myth that guys look at beauty alone. Sure, a pretty face might
get you through the front door, but that's about all, really. Guys
look for someone to relate to, someone they can pour their hearts
out to. Guys want someone they feel at ease talking to, because
50 years down the road, when you're both old and gray and even reaching
for that bottle of Viagra seems a chore, conversation is all you
have left.
Don't
Be Discouraged
If you try talking to a guy, and they snap back at you, don't be
disheartened. Instead, follow up with something like, "You
must have had a real bad day at work, want to talk about it?"
This shows that firstly, you genuinely care about him and secondly,
it allows him the opportunity to tell you what's on his mind. It
gets a lot easier from then onwards.
Ending
The Conversation
There's an art to ending a conversation too, you know. When ending
the conversation, keep these three objectives in mind. One, the
conversation needs to end on a light note. Two, you need to show
that you want to get back and continue the conversation some other
time, hinting at the possibility of a date. And three, you should
strive to end the conversation before you run out of things to talk
about. That way, you avoid the awkward moment at the end when you
both stare at each other and smile sheepishly, not knowing what
to say.
You could say something like, "Hey, thanks for the coffee.
Loved the cappuccino. I'm afraid I really need to get going. What
about if we continue this conversation some other time?" or
even possibly, "Wow! That was interesting. Want to grab some
lunch and see a movie tomorrow?"
Opening
Lines for girls
There's
a certain stigma which society attaches to flirtatious women. Branded
as desperate and cheap, most women submit to this pressure and let
the men do all the chasing.
This doesn't have to be the case. In a recent study, over 60% of
the men interviewed said that they were really attracted to women
flirted with them.
Formulating
An Opening Line
When formulating an opening line, it is vital that you don't see
it as some sort of sexual invitation but as a sort of introduction
to yourself. Opening lines must never be condescending, never insulting.
Normally, they are disguised as a question, something innocent like,
"Hi! I've seen you around here for some time now but I've never
gotten the opportunity to talk to you personally. Want to come for
a cup of Cold Coffee at Café Coffee Day ?"
Are
Opening Lines For You?
There are three main reasons why women don't use opening lines.
They feel it's inappropriate for a woman to do the chasing.
They are scared of rejection.
They don't feel confident enough to "pull it off".
As for the first reason, we have explained earlier that it's perfectly
okay for women to assume a more dominant role in a relationship.
Times have changed and men enjoy being flattered once in a while
Dating
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