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Opening
Lines for girls
There's
a certain stigma which society attaches to flirtatious women. Branded
as desperate and cheap, most women submit to this pressure and let
the men do all the chasing.
This doesn't have to be the case. In a recent study, over 60% of
the men interviewed said that they were really attracted to women
flirted with them.
Formulating
An Opening Line
When formulating an opening line, it is vital that you don't see
it as some sort of sexual invitation but as a sort of introduction
to yourself. Opening lines must never be condescending, never insulting.
Normally, they are disguised as a question, something innocent like,
"Hi! I've seen you around here for some time now but I've never
gotten the opportunity to talk to you personally. Want to come for
a cup of Cold Coffee at Café Coffee Day ?"
Are
Opening Lines For You?
There are three main reasons why women don't use opening lines.
They feel it's inappropriate for a woman to do the chasing.
They are scared of rejection.
They don't feel confident enough to "pull it off".
As for the first reason, we have explained earlier that it's perfectly
okay for women to assume a more dominant role in a relationship.
Times have changed and men enjoy being flattered once in a while
Dating
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