9 Ways To Compliment A Man
Express sincere interest in something he does that he takes pride
in. This could be a sport he plays, volunteer work he does,
a hobby, his job, etc. If you would like to know more, ask questions.
If you would like to watch him play a sport, go watch one of his
games. Be sincere; don't pretend to be interested in something that
totally bores you, just to please him.
Laugh at his jokes. Be careful not to overdo it, you'll be
sure to annoy him if you turn into a giggling teenager whenever
he speaks. Just don't be shy about laughing; if you naturally see
the humor in his jokes or sarcasm he'll enjoy being around you.
Admire him. If you put your mind to it you can find something
admirable about everyone. So, discover something about him that
you really like and compliment him on that. It could be his skills,
his intelligence, how romantic he is, his super friendly personality,
etc.
Appreciate the things he does for you. If he takes you out
for diner, tell him how good the food is, how nice the restaurant
is, how much you are enjoying yourself, anything positive about
the time you spend together is good. Even if the night doesn't go
as planned, and all seems ruined...look on the bright side, tell
him you enjoyed spending time with him (only if you did). You will
come across as super positive and everyone wants to be around positive
people.
Compliment
him on a job well done. Did he fix the flat tire in your scooter?
Did he solve a big problem in class? Tell him he did a good job,
and compliment something specific about what he did.
Tell
him he looks good.
Find something about his appearance that you really like and point
it out to him. His nice lips, sexy legs, or friendly smile.
If
he works out compliment his great posture.
Or even better - if he has great posture ask him if he works out.
Compliment his muscle control, his endurance, etc. Be careful, it's
easy to go too far with this, don't just say things to flatter him,
and don't go on and on about how big his muscles are. A simple comment
that you're impressed by how well he does his exercises is fine.
Ask
him for help.
If he is at the gym doing the leg press and you don't know how to
use it, go ask him to show you. If your car hasn't been working,
ask if he would look at it. The point here is that he gets to be
the expert, by helping you he feels smart and competent, and complimented.
Compliment
his relationship skills.
This is great because if you say something like: "I really
like when you hug me for no reason" he will feel happy because
you are pleased by him, and so he will do more of what he knows
pleases you. You both benefit from this. Compliment his listening
skills, how understanding he is, how generous he is, take notice
of all the sweet romantic things he does for you, etc
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